Mostly you come across people who hate you at your back and some times in front of you too and they keep on irritating you. I was reading 7 Habbits of Highly Efficient People and I came across this quote,
"Treat a man as he is and he will remain as he is. Treat a man as he can and should be and he will become as he can and should be."
In the light of this quote, can anyone explain me how to deal with such people? I actually don't get what the author meant here.
Thanks in advance.