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Ignore it. I know this is difficult, but it's the only thing that will make things better. Very often, the reason people become monsters is in the process of trying to slay another monster. He probably had a tough time with someone in his past and is doing this because he feels it as justice to what someone else did to him. He'll mess up one day and karma ...

I think you want to get back at him, or prevent him from doing it again, and you want to move on with your life and work. My suggestion would be to free yourself of him and what he does. Do no try change him or save the world from what he does, did, or might do. If you can accept that you don't have any control over his behaviour it should make it easier ...

Whether to share or not is out of scope for this site. Regardless, you need to move on so you can concentrate. Write something down. On paper. Don't share it; you can decide whether to do later when you are less upset. Talk to friends/vent. Punch something if it makes you feel better. Try to practice concentrating on something fun like watching tv or ...

I think it is a matter of my priorities: Have I been given a deadline by a boss or client? Am I unable to reschedule this task? e.g. Can't wait until next week because I'm at a conference. There is no negative history of contacting this other person. I'd be less inclined to automatically call, but it is something to think about. A big problem in many ...