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I'll try and answer this as general as possible, since your question is extremely vague. You don't need to come off as some dark figure, but you also don't need to be the peppy go lucky person people like. Or perhaps you could be that peppy-go-lucky person, but once people begin to 'walk all over you', you can become stern. Or maybe you could even pursue a ...
You say you forgave them, but it seems it is still bothering you. If you don't want to interact with them any more, go one step further : forget them*. Yes, it is easier said than done, but "Why should you lose time thinking about people you don't like ?" (from one of Dale Carnegie's book, I don't remember the original author) Moreover, you are giving them ...
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