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To overcome your embarrassment of what other people think about you first you need to ask yourself what are the reasons that makes you feel embarrassed, there may be many ways to overcome that, but without knowing the internal core of your thoughts you may not be able to use those tools productively. The second question you need to ask yourself is why it ...


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Spend more time thinking about what YOU want to do with your life, and spend less time thinking about what others do, it won't change over night, but that's the best way in the long term.


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Determine what you are really seeking - perhaps it is to be the best at a certain skill, but it could also be to gain recognition from others. It could be both. To be the best, don't make it your motive to "be better than the other person", because there will always be another better person, you just haven't discovered them yet, and you will always be ...


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I take a "what's the worst that can happen" approach to my feelings of embarrassment. I had to develop this approach due to my desire to be successful in a career of sales. Take these examples as further explanation: What's the worst that could happen if: - you have to make a public speech - you have to tell someone about a poor decision you made - you've ...


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Self critique is a habit, just like a fat person can't become slim if he always argues with himself about eating cake or not, you can't stop criticising yourself if you keep thinking about it. I'm not saying it's easy to stop thinking about such things, but you should still try, think about it as little as possible. No matter how careful you are, you will ...



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